From my October 2021 Retreat Notes:

I was thinking of how much peace there is in reality; and I should try as much as I can to stay in it and the truth.

This means more time recognizing the invisible spiritual realities. They are always present, even if I am too busy or distracted to notice them.

This means less time looking at screens. This means spending less time in thinking of the future, which is unknown anyway. What are those thoughts, but projections, imaginations… worries? They are not usually with positive outcomes, and most often not to be at all.

How interesting… (to me anyway). I wrote these words over a year ago and they were saved as a draft. I wasn’t really sure what I wanted to write about tonight, and this incomplete post jumped out at me. So, forgive me if I have a chat with myself.

Yes, my friend, I find this to be true again and again. Take this week, for example. I wrapped up the foyer painting on Monday. It’s nice and clean, and put back together, but I don’t know what I’ll do about the decor. I’m only certain about the piano right now. I haven’t hung anything on the walls, I’m not sure how I feel about the bench, and the sheet music book storage; but I let that go and focused Tuesday on getting ready for the first day of school.

This included food shopping, school supply shopping, bringing out the homeschooling books, making a plan for the 3 day week, and putting things away around the house. Then, all of a sudden the day felt super busy. I started cleaning out the old food in the fridge. Rachel needed paint for her senior parking space at the high school and there was a trip to the Home Depot. I dropped Hannah off at the park for cross country practice and I tried to pick her up on my way to the orthodontist with Mary, but when we got there, she was in the woods and we couldn’t find her. So we went to the orthodontist appointment and were receiving texts that she needed a ride home. So back to the park and then home to continue my “to do” list.

I was feeling a little stressed. You know how I get when I am rushing. And what for? Why did I think I had to do all those things to be prepared for the first day of school?

The reality is that this morning I got up at 6 AM to wake Mary for the first day of school. Hannah had already woken her up and I found her upstairs vomiting. I headed downstairs to set up the bucket, sheets and blankets, and draw her a bath; and found that Sarah was also vomiting. So… change of plans. Instead of the first day of school, I spent a quiet day at home, taking care of my daughters.

It’s another reminder that I don’t know what the future holds. It’s a waste of time to worry about it. I just want to be grateful and to stay in the present moment.

Another reality is that last night before I went to bed, I journaled about all my worries. I asked God to please take care of me, and all my needs. I gave Him all of my concerns. I asked Him to please direct my thinking. I believe He did just that. This morning, I cheerfully accepted the change of plans. (This is not me.) And today, instead of trying to get more done, I rested.