After at least a week of obsessively scrolling facebook, chuckling at toilet paper memes, and reading news articles; I am back to believing that God has a plan for my life.
So I got off the beam for awhile there. It’s hard not to panic when your food’s running out, there’s a rumor that everything will be shut down for two weeks, Walmart is packed with people who might be carrying the Coronavirus without symptoms (or worse, might cough on you) and every few aisles, you turn down one that is just about wiped out. Add in the fact that most of the activities that keep me grounded are canceled indefinitely, and the unsettling feeling that I always have when I read sensational media.
I don’t want to feel like I’m reading propaganda. I just want the facts. I don’t want to read that in a population of 300 million, the number of cases is “ballooning” to 48. I started out with my usual skepticism. Aren’t we overreacting? Look at the numbers. How can China’s cases be going down now with only 80,000 cases out of 1.4 billion people? Are we going to destroy the economy and give up our freedoms for something less serious than the seasonal flu? Why are people not questioning this? I understand the argument for “flattening the curve”. But the argument is only true if the premises are true. And why is everyone assuming that hundreds of thousands of people are going to be infected, when many of the tests are coming back negative? And why isn’t testing available for everyone who wants to be tested?
But on the other hand… I don’t want my mother or my father-in-law, who both have COPD to get sick. And I don’t want my father to get sick, or my kids, or my husband, or me, or my next-door neighbors, or anyone… I’m social distancing. I’m not letting my kids have their friends over. I’m dropping groceries off at my mom’s door. I’m attending ZOOM meetings, talking on the phone, texting, and counting or singing while scrubbing my hands with soap and water just like the rest of the world. It was all so disturbing.
And it was all so distracting. Until I decided to take a break one day. No news, no facebook. I prayed and I journaled. I took these notes from this video. It reminded me to be patient.
- This trial is God’s will. God has a plan for you. Nothing is so bad that God can’t use it for your good.
- Stop thinking of the negative aspects of it. Start thinking of the positive aspects of the trial. Discover truths today and dwell on them.
- This won’t last forever. Only eternity is forever. Answer with faith and patience, not anger. God has a loving plan for you, be patient.
I struggle with acceptance and surrender. I think I know better. But if I think I do, I’m already in a trap. I have been distracted. I forgot the truth – that God has a plan for my life. I must make him the center of my life. Not curiosity, or knowledge of what’s happening in the world, not seeking to control what is out of my control. I do not know why this is happening right now, but I will use this time to grow closer to God.
Yesterday, I went to a drive up adoration at my parish. I listened to a beautiful version of the Divine Mercy Chaplet in my van. I felt so grateful to be across the street from the Blessed Sacrament. This experience has opened my eyes to how much I took for granted. We often had weekday Masses at 7:00, 7:15, 8:30, and 12:10 in different churches in my hometown, and sometimes I’d sleep in or get too busy to go to them. There would be adoration on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and everyday in the next town over. And now the church doors are locked.
But God has a plan for me. Today I have hope and I will trust him. I will let him guide me to where I should go, what I should do, and what I should say. I don’t have to worry. I can choose to, but I don’t have to. I can have peace in any situation.